Do you think some stay away from those they know so as not to be judged? Not live in same house, town, etc.?

Yes, your question makes a really good point. I wonder if a person really has to move or live far away to overcome this problem. As you mentioned we teach people how to teach us. I think all we can control is ourselves but we can control how people treat us because there is a law of attraction. It is easier to just run from others but the best thing to do is not attract what we don't want my looking at what we don't want. Then focusing on what we do want. So if a person wants to live in an area where they feel judged they have to really be able to believe that they are free from being judged so completely they can live where they want & not have this happen anymore. If they don't feel this way they could possibly attract people in a new area that judge them so it is important to change within anyway.