Just a little understanding?

Absolutely. Everyone should be understanding and non-judgemental. No person will "give away" their child without a good reason and that reason is usually made out of love for that child and the fact that they know they have nothing to offer it, but that some loving family will be able to give the child all it needs. It is a most giving love, a sacrificial one and it isn't without it's own pain and heartache so yes, people should always be understanding and sensitive.